yeah i second that. i only discovered that i was bi a couple of months ago and i have had a weight lifted of my shoulders. and i love this site. like Cassandra said we all can talk openly and freely.

cheers
to all
kylie

Yeah that is the best part is the openly and freely. I have known I was gay for years but had to hide it bc I grew up in the foster care system.  I have been out for almost 7 years now.  Have had ups and downs but now I am who I am and that's all that matters.

I am always willing to listen to anyone.  I have gone through lots as I not only came out but I am also a butch woman that came out in Minnesota.  Not exceptable there and very not open to anyone that even looks like me.

hey cassandra i currently have a crush on a very butch woman. hot hot hot that is all i can say
yummmy yummy

I'm 34 and I am a small town butch woman who can totally relate. Always willing to chat with anyone and meet new people. I'm glad that there is a site like this for us to go to and share our lives with eachother .

Hello Cassandra, It's always amazed me how stand offish most butch women are with each other you'd think that we'd want to be more friendlier since we understand what we are going thru. Infact most lesbians here don't even speak to me bcuz I am so openly butch and they are afraid of being catagorized as a lesbian by association. Oh well, I'm me and I'm not changing anytime soon. Nice to meet you too.

I haven't had to many problems with the men in this town, most are just curious and have for the most part accepted me as one of the guys. What gets me though is being called sir all the time, often times I just go along with it so as not to embarrass the person, but really it drives me insane cuz if they would take one second to look at me they would notice a couple very sure signs of my femminity. I guess it comes with the territory.